Before I had my son. Coming home was a pretty chilled out affair. It often involved relaxing for about 20 minutes while I processed the day. I would maybe read a book, watch a bit of telly, or chat with my wife. How things change! Now as soon as you walk through the door, I'm realising that you need to be superhero for your family and kids.
When I first became a dad, I didn't quite understand the concept of transforming into Superman as soon as you walk through the door. In fairness, as my son didn't move around that much, it was slightly easier. However, compare it to a few days ago where as soon as my key went in the door, I could hear the patter of little feet running to greet me. I then spent about 10 minutes going up and down the stairs with my son and his ball, then playing the kangaroo game, horsey game and finishing with running into daddy's groin as fast and hard as you can. Trust me as painful as it sounds, it is all good fun. My only wish is that like Superman, I was impervious to flying toys and the occasional headbutts from my son.
The point being is that it is another step down the selfless pathway that is in essence what parenthood is mainly about. Being tired isn't important and as you continue on your journey, you pay less attention to it. Your kids think you are a superhero and can't wait to see you. As soon as you step into your home, be ready to be Superman until they go to bed. Your kids have incredibly long memories about the games you play with them. The more you play them, the more you bond with them. Your partner on a good day welcomes the break and company. On a bad day, they are desperate for you to take over. It is important that you save something for your family and your kids. You don't want to see it as a task to play with your kids. As a good friend of mine said, "kids want presence, not more presents. "
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